A Magical Way To Work With Our Habitual Patterns
“You have Within you more love than you could ever understand.” ~Rumi Every day, I work with people trying to shift their habitual patterns: procrastination, avoidance, escape, reaching for comfort...
View ArticleHundred Little Decisions: Training Ourselves at the Decision Point
“It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.” ~Tony Robbins Over and over, throughout the day, we make the Hundred Little Decisions: to work on this, to check email, to go to this...
View ArticleA Guide To Managing Your Time When You’re Always Behind
It seems to me that being behind on all the things you need to do has become (or perhaps always has been) a part of our basic human condition. I don’t know anyone who feels they’re completely on top of...
View ArticleNot All Problems Are Problems – 5 Real Problems for Leaders
A problem to you is a solution to someone else. Friction and conflict are advantages when they inspire learning, growth, or innovation. You might believe bureaucracy is a problem. But in top-down...
View ArticleEliminate These 3 Things To Be More Productive
What are your biggest distractions to getting what you need and want to be done, done, in other words being productive? I have trouble being more productive when my mind runs amuck and I just follow...
View ArticleSetting Long-Term Goals: Tips and Tricks
KEY POINTS Long-term goals require planning and sustained effort. Long-term goals should be specific, meaningful, and realistic. To help you stick with your long-term goals, clarify possible...
View ArticleDoes Everything Have a Deeper Meaning?
Many seekers of personal and spiritual growth resort to “magical thinking”. We imagine that we see deeper connections between incidents and phenomena that are seemingly not related on the immediate,...
View ArticleBe Patient With Yourself During Depression
Depression is a mental health condition that can become serious if left untreated. When you’re feeling depressed, it’s difficult to perform everyday life tasks, which can make a person feel...
View ArticleRoot Cause Analysis Is Over-Rated—What To Do Instead
A car that won’t start requires root cause analysis. But people development and culture building may not. We spend too much time asking ‘why’ and not enough time exploring ‘what’. If your team is...
View ArticleDelight In Uncertainty
Most of us have a troubled relationship with uncertainty, often without even knowing it. Our most difficult problems often stem from uncertainty: procrastination, overwhelm, distraction, anxiety,...
View Article5 Powerful Strategies for Letting Go of Your Ex
In other to learn how to let go of your ex, you, first of all, have to understand the true meaning of the word “ex”. There’s this obvious answer: an ex is someone with whom a person was once...
View Article20 Useful Ways To Create Focus Today
Distraction dilutes the impact of your life. Consider the splendid absurdity of an unfocused life. You can spend a day chasing distractions and feel important doing it. Distractions are tender...
View ArticleDistracting From the Distraction
Have you ever assessed just how much time you give up to “distraction” each day — time you won’t get back? I did and the results distressed me. There is no doubt that there is a lot of “REAL” stuff...
View ArticleMultitasking Makes You Stupid: Single-Tasking Is Smarter
You can’t move forward when you’re running in circles. You can’t efficiently do two complex tasks at the same time. We’re addicted to constant distraction and repeated interruption. You feel insecure...
View Article10 Annoying Things You Are Doing That Drive Your Coworkers Crazy
By Bernz JP By spending hours and hours a day with your coworkers, you start to become a family. And with family comes drama. You have your best friends, your acquaintances, and unfortunately,...
View ArticleHow To Powerfully Agitate The Gaslighter In Your Life
Have you ever walked out of an argument with a cheating lover feeling sorry for them? You approach the argument with fury at their behaviour. But when the fight is over, you’re the one who has done...
View Article6 Simple Hacks to Control Cell Phone Distraction
“Leave the distracted masses to join a focused few” Cal Newport, Deep Work. What’s the best way to control smartphone distractions? We intend to work, but instead proceed to scroll through Instagram...
View ArticleMy Children’s Honesty Is Expensive
This is the typical divorce story — one walks away with all of the financial security and the other gets the kids. I am the one with the kids, thank God. I completely got the shaft with regard to the...
View Article3 Out of 4 Parents Agree Social Media Distracts Students
By Avery Ruxer Franklin – Rice For the online study, conducted in November and December, researchers surveyed a nationally representative sample of more than 10,000 parents of K-12 students. An...
View ArticleThe Journey of Life Mastery
I have the privilege of coaching and mentoring some amazing people. It truly is an honor to be gifted the talents, the will, and the desire to help people grow into higher versions of themselves. If...
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